Brock Ciarlelli: Why Sue’s Best Friend Brad Still Matters

Brock Ciarlelli: Why Sue’s Best Friend Brad Still Matters

Most sitcom sidekicks exist to deliver a punchline and vanish into the background. They’re the "friend" who shows up once every three episodes to remind you the main character has a social life. But if you spent nine years watching the Hecks navigate the chaotic, beige-carpeted reality of Orson, Indiana, you know Brock Ciarlelli was never just a background player.

Playing Brad Bottig, Brock Ciarlelli became the secret weapon of The Middle. Honestly, he’s probably the most consistent source of pure, unadulterated joy in a show that was literally built on the struggle of being lower-middle class. You've got the Heck family constantly worrying about the dishwasher breaking or Axl’s latest academic failure, and then Brad just… sashays into the frame.

It’s rare.

The Brad Bottig Effect: More Than a Best Friend

Brad started out as Sue Heck’s boyfriend. Remember that? Back in season one, they were the quintessential "awkward middle school couple." They broke up because Brad started smoking—or so Sue thought. It turned out he just liked the "theatricality" of it.

That was the first hint that Brock Ciarlelli was doing something special with the role. He didn't play Brad as a caricature. Even when the character was performing high-energy jazz hands in the middle of a high school hallway, there was a warmth there.

He was Sue's rock.

While everyone else in Orson was trying to fit in or just survive, Brad and Sue were busy being their most intense, optimistic selves. Most viewers didn't realize that Brock was originally only supposed to be in a few episodes. But his chemistry with Eden Sher was so electric that the writers kept bringing him back. He ended up appearing in over 50 episodes across all nine seasons.

Why Brock Ciarlelli Stayed Relatable

Basically, Brock’s performance worked because he leaned into the "theatre kid" energy without making it the only thing about Brad. We’ve all known a Brad. Maybe we were a Brad.

  • He was the guy who could turn a "Wrestlerette" routine into a Broadway-caliber performance.
  • He was the friend who actually listened to Sue's endless "Year of Sue" plans.
  • He provided a counterpoint to Mike Heck’s stoic, "man of few words" vibe.

One of the most touching moments in the entire series—and fans still talk about this—is when Brad finally comes out to Sue. It wasn't a "Very Special Episode" with dramatic music and tears. They were just sitting on the hood of a car. Brad starts to say it, and Sue, in her typical Sue fashion, already knows. She’s known for years.

It was handled with so much grace. No big monologue. Just two friends being okay with each other. Brock’s acting in that scene was subtle, which is saying something for a character known for wearing sweater vests and doing tap dances.

Life After Orson: The Spin-off That Almost Was

After The Middle wrapped up its incredible run in 2018, the fans weren't ready to let go. Neither was ABC, apparently. They filmed a pilot for a spin-off titled Sue Sue in the City.

The premise was simple: Sue moves to Chicago to start her adult life. And who was right there with her? Brad. Brock Ciarlelli was set to be a series regular.

The pilot was filmed, and by all accounts, it was great. Brock and Eden Sher have since shared behind-the-scenes photos and even did a recap of what that show would have looked like. Unfortunately, ABC passed on the series. It’s one of those "what if" moments in TV history that still stings for the fandom.

Since the show ended, Brock hasn't just sat around. He’s a B.S. in Mathematics graduate from Chapman University (yeah, he’s actually a math whiz), and he’s been busy:

  1. Teaching: He’s a top-tier acting teacher at Stan Kirsch Studios in LA.
  2. Streaming: He appeared in the Netflix series Glamorous.
  3. Film: He had a role in the Universal rom-com Bros.
  4. Podcasting: He and Eden Sher launched a podcast called Middling, where they rewatch the show and spill tea about what went on behind the scenes.

The Lasting Legacy of the "Square Pegs"

People still watch The Middle on streaming services because it feels real. The clothes aren't trendy. The house is messy. The kids aren't "cool."

Brock Ciarlelli represented the "square peg" in a world of round holes. He showed that you could be "extra," you could be the theatre kid in a sports-obsessed town, and you could still be the most beloved person in the room.

He wasn't a joke. He was the heart.

If you’re looking to dive back into the world of Orson, the best way is to check out the Middling podcast. Hearing Brock and Eden talk about their time on set gives you a whole new appreciation for the work that went into making Brad Bottig more than just a sidekick.

What to do next:
Go watch Season 7, Episode 7, "The Homecoming." It’s the episode where Brad and Sue have their big "talk" on the car. It’s a masterclass in how to handle a character’s growth without losing the humor that made them great in the first place. Afterward, check out the Middling podcast to hear Brock’s take on filming that specific day.